i think this is an important question. personally, i love mine and think there's no problem with it. but it's recently come to my attention that maybe i don't look 'decent' in some outfits (too skanky, which really is NOT my goal)

so.. where is the line between tops that say 'well put together' and 'will put out!'??

and does breast size have to do with it? can small chested ladies get away with more revealing tops? if so where's the cup size line?

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unfortunately breast size has LOTS to do with it. I can wear a small cleavage and it will look huge because my boobs are big. I have some smallbreasted friends that get away with wearing the most revealing tops because they look "cute" in it. not sexy, not provocative, not skanky, CUTE. it kinda pisses me off. I try not to ever wear cleavage when Im at work or school, but sometimes they're just kinda out there. when i go out, I wear cleavage, because I find most big breasted people look better with some cleavage than none...ah I wasn't helpful, this thread made me rant.

no no, plenty helpful.
this is exactaly the sortof discussion we should have.

for example, is this too slutty, or okay?

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I agree with un*touchable, boob size has lots to do with it. Damn smalled boobed people.
Anyway, I think that picture shows a nice amount of cleavage. The jean jacket kind of balances out the cleavage too.

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and i've also been thinking about when cleavage becomes distracting. for men, what amount of cleavage becomes distracting? or gets you to stop/lessen your listening of what a woman has to say, becauser her boobs are all in your face?

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