i hate to say it, but you cant get away without exercise. its absolutely impossible in the long run. for a few reasons.
first is- in order to lose weight without exercise, you're going to have to cut calories DRASTICALLY in order to achieve any significant weight loss. you'll lose weight, BUT..a)you'll be starving and unable to keep it up for very long, b)you'll be losing fat AND muscle, muscle being your body's calorie burning furnace, meaning that in the long run your metabolism will be WAY WAY low and you'll have to eat very very little forever in order to maintain. which like i say, is impossible for anyone. so if you exercise you can, and basically have to, eat a lot more. which is mentally way easier, and just feels more natural.
secondly- getting into exercise, as much as you think it will be horrible now, will pay off BIG time not just physically, but MENTALLY. it feels like shit at the beginning when you're out of shape, it sucks frankly. that's why you've been unable to get past that, but that horrid feeling DOES go away and you can't imagine how GREAT you feel during and after exercise. and it's a wonderful mental check for keeping your other good habits in line, it really does motivate you to not eat crap even if you really want to, it helps your cravings go away, etc. it 'resets' your brain in a way. and those feel-good chemicals are a serious plusside
the key is to start slowly, and dont put too much pressure on yourself. find an exericse you truly LIKE to do, a few, and mix it up. and make sure to do weight training as well as cardio (weights are a must, esp for weight loss!), and do whatever you can to be consistent.
too bad there isnt a magic bullet that gives you the benefit of exercise without the time and effort, but truth be told, id miss the actual exercise so much. as long as there ISNT a magic bullet, people have just gotta keep looking for stuff they'll like to do! its out there!
