wow. thank you all for being incredibly judgemental and not honestly attempting to help...
not a single person here knows what the circumstances are or why this had to happen...this was the hardest decision i have ever made in my life. and i know i made the right one. but that doesnt mean it still doesnt devestate me.
I don't think people are being judgemental of your decision. They are being judgemental of you saying how painful and private this decision was and yet you want a tattoo of it. And on top of that you don't want to explain the tattoo. That doesn't make sense. It is a tattoo.