I noticed the other day when I was doing my make up that I am getting a rather noticeable smattering of hair on my upper lip. I'm quite fair, so bleaching is an option, but would this just look like a blonde tash instead of a brown one? Should I wax it? Should I....shave it? I'm confused and disconcerted. Come share your (lady) moustache experience here.

i used to bleach mine with that jolen **** til i went away travelling and realised it wwasnt that noticable at all, but if you have dark hair i guess it might be an idea to give it a wee bleach. never tried anything else, but veet prob have facial hair melters and bleachers and the like, i use their leg removal stuff and it's pretty good? though if 's fair i would just leave it, all girls have peach fuzz on their faces and frankly, who needs another thing to remember to do!

It probably isn't as noticeable as you think it is. We're in the habit of studying our own faces at very close range and most people never get to see us as closely as we'd see ourselves.

But if you feel like you have to do something with it, I'd suggest waxing. I get a tiny amount of hair near the corners of my mouth, which is only very slightly darker than the normal 'peach fuzz' hair anywhere else on my face. Waxing it does the trick.

Never shave it.

only get it waxed if your willing to put up with regular unbearable pain. it is literally the most horrifying thing ever. bleaching is the way forward

Do not shave. Wax.