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09-29-2008, 07:53 PM
|  | feministsforlife.org | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: In My Tanooki Suit
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Originally Posted by Jean-Paul  The legalization will certainly have something to do with it if it is made illegal and girls without medical degrees will have to go back to attempting a medical procedure. Or even better. Those nasty hacks who will be in the market again once doctors aren't allowed to do it. People with no medical education selling abortions to girls. You can't logically argue that this won't happen. And if you think there's nothing wrong with it, you're sick. The illegalization of abortion will only cut off medical care. it won't stop abortion. | You're missing a lot. Quacks are still here. Women are still dying. Legal or not- it's a mess.
And I wasn't actually ASKING you.....
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09-29-2008, 07:57 PM
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| | | If you're sitting there thinking that I believe ending abortion on a legal level is the ultimate answer- you're wrong. It isn't the end of the problem. There's LOTS to be fixed.
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09-29-2008, 07:58 PM
|  | communist daughter | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: chaos, constant, forever
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Originally Posted by Thumperlyn You're missing a lot. Quacks are still here. Women are still dying. Legal or not- it's a mess.
And I wasn't actually ASKING you..... | Oh hay you edited, you must have predicted my response.
My heart goes out to every poor child who gets adopted into a christian home.
RUN, UNWANTED CHILDREN, RUN. No, not to the waffle house wedding!...away...away...! 
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"I mean, they lost both parents. That's just careless." - Zach Braff on orphans
"Don't get me wrong, I love the idea of killing unwanted babies, it's just that the idea of letting women make a decision doesn't sit well with me." - Zach Braff on abortion.
"It's not that I think the Nazis were right, or anything. It's just that, we weren't there, we don't know."
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09-29-2008, 08:00 PM
| | communist daughter | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: chaos, constant, forever
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Originally Posted by Thumperlyn If you're sitting there thinking that I believe ending abortion on a legal level is the ultimate answer- you're wrong. It isn't the end of the problem. There's LOTS to be fixed. | Bah, you didn't edit. It was a second post. I'm confused as to why you think I'm saying ending legal abortion is, um, "the answer" to anything?
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"I mean, they lost both parents. That's just careless." - Zach Braff on orphans
"Don't get me wrong, I love the idea of killing unwanted babies, it's just that the idea of letting women make a decision doesn't sit well with me." - Zach Braff on abortion.
"It's not that I think the Nazis were right, or anything. It's just that, we weren't there, we don't know."
- Zach Braff on the holocaust |
09-29-2008, 08:06 PM
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Originally Posted by Jean-Paul Bah, you didn't edit. It was a second post. I'm confused as to why you think I'm saying ending legal abortion is, um, "the answer" to anything? | Are you stoned?
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I'm saying generally people will think that I, as a member of a Right To Life organization, only care about ending legal abortion and nothing else. I'm saying that isn't the case. Nor do I think that would solve all the problems. It's part of a solution. And even if we come up with a good solution I'm aware there will always be abortion, just like there will always be awful things among us.
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10-02-2008, 05:41 PM
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Originally Posted by cherry_nebula i don't want aborted babies to suffer anymore than a hungry kid does but i'm certainly not going to give my support to a candidate who favors the fetus but couldn't give two shits about it once it's been born. | good point, cherry_nebula. it makes me think of the whole "if the fetus you save turns out to be gay, will you still fight for its rights?" fiasco with the pro-lifers who are anti-homosexual (had to add that, considering not everyone who's pro life is anti gay). |
10-02-2008, 06:49 PM
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Originally Posted by Amity I couldn't make a title that didn't sound horribly morbid. Apologies.
Anyway, I followed a link in Thumperlyn's sig, and, taking the political agenda out of the equation for the moment, the video it showed me made me think: if you had an abortion and the foetus was still alive when they yanked it out, would you not be mightily pissed off? If anything, that video made me think they should really be using more drugs/monitoring the foetus to make sure it's fucking dead first? For one, it would save a WHOLE lot of ethical debate. |
I had a termination many years ago, and to be honest, I really believed that the foetus would be dead, before removal. I didn't really understand the procedural process. But I DID know that I was not in a place,mentally, to be able to nurture and love the baby that I was expecting. I still think about that potential person, not every day now, but very often. I wouldn't change my stance. I believe that, if you choose to have a child, then you should do your utmost to be there for that child, most importantly, emotionally. And I wouldn't have been.
I have worked with children who have special needs for about 15 years now, and also with children who have SEVERE attachment issues, because that parent has been, for whatever reason, unable to bond with that child. The long term effects on those children, are enormous, lifelong, and extremely distressing.
I work with children who are suffering from extreme neglect, and abuse, both physical and emotional. The trauma of this will live with these children forever. It prevents them from coping with school, with social situations. They have no trust, they are isolated and extremely vulnerable. Because you cannot see any outward signs of this, they are labelled as 'difficult, devious, akward, unlikeable...'
THIS is the truly sad fact of some childrens' lives. I would far rather that someone has a termination, than condemn their child to a life that really is a living hell.  | | Thread Tools | | | | Display Modes |  Linear Mode | 
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